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Everyday Hoikuen Items

As I was dropping Miyu off at school this morning, I had the urge to finally document all of the things that I bring with us. At least once or twice a week. Hoikuen had been daunting for me at first, but now that we’re settled into a routine, things aren’t that bad. To give you an idea of the madness though, here is a list of things that I bring for her on Mondays.

Inside her backpack

In the front flap:

  • Renrakucho (communication journal for parents and teachers). This journal needs to have a record of her temperature for every single morning, and who is picking her up and what time. In the photo below, it’s the yellow booklet in the middle. Inside, it’s just regular lined notebook paper.

This photo was taken at the hoiken on April 3rd, right when Miyu started. The left sheet is actually her time card.  The time card is something I’ll discuss in a future post about hoikuen in general. As of right now, October 2nd, that particular time card is no longer used. 

  • Attendance booklet (I don’t know what this is called, will come back to this later). In the photo, it’s the blue and green booklet. When you open it, it’s basically a calendar where the teacher or child puts stickers on each day of attendance.
  • Monthly dues and fees (¥7,500~¥8,000) – This is separate from the monthly cost of attendance. These fees pay for extra classes that we have Miyu enrolled in like English and Gymnastics. There’s more but I can’t remember at this moment, go figure. I didn’t bold this item because this is not an everyday item. This is only for the beginning of the month. For her particular hoikuen, it’s a yellow bubble type of envelope with a ziplock closure at the top.
  • Insurance paper and ¥100 fee for her upcoming field day. Again, this is not an everyday item but I thought I would include this anyway. We placed the ¥100 yen inside an envelope.

In the main compartment:

  • Extra (normal) clothes: 4 shirts, 3 pants, 3 panties, 2 socks (I forgot to add another one). Usually, I can only fit three of each item.

I usually separate her extra clothes into outfits that are then placed into a thin plastic bag like the one pictured on the left underneath the clothes. When I don’t have time to organize, I just grab clean clothes and throw them into her backpack. The extra clothes are placed into her cubby drawer which I will explain in another post.

  • One set of extra gym clothes for that day (shirt + shorts). Gym clothes = uniform underneath skirt and blazer.

Extra gym clothes

The extra set of gym clothes go inside a drawing bag.

 

 

 

 

  • Cutlery for lunchtime.

The face towel gets folded into the small plastic container and everything is placed inside a drawstring bag. The container is useful because after the face towel is used, it’s usually wet and dirty, so the container keeps the other items from getting soiled. I leave the cutlery in her backpack which is stored in her cubby.

  • Face towel for lunchtime messes. This is usually soaked in water so that it’s easier to clean dirty faces.
  • Toothbrush + cup – Note there is NO toothpaste. This is kept in a drawstring bag and is hung along with the hand towel.

I check every now and then at the quality of her toothbrush. Once the bristles start to look worn down, I just go ahead and replace the toothbrush. 

 

 

  • Hand towel with a loop for drying hands after washing. These towels must have the holder loop so that they can be hung (along with the cup and toothbrush) on the mobile pegs typically located near the sink.

These towels are nice to have in her classroom because using a cloth towel as opposed to paper towels is better for the environment. Not only that but by bringing their own towels, it’s more hygienic. 

 

 

 

PegsJust for reference: There are two pegs in the photo to the left. The round one is used for hanging their outerwear. The long rectangular one is used for the hand towels and toothbrush set. I will touch upon these again in a future generalized post. 

 

 

 

  • Handkerchief – They place these inside the back pocket of their shorts.

We got Miyu two different kinds of handkerchiefs to see which one we like better. The bigger, thinner ones are nice because they’re less bulky in the pocket. The downside is they don’t absorb much sweat. The smaller one on the right is nice because it absorbs sweat but for some reason they’re easy to tear. If you click on the photo to see the larger version, you’ll notice the Sophia handkerchief is falling apart at the bottom. Next time what I’ll do is buy a whole pack of these and then immediately trim off the tags so they won’t get pulled on and tear the fabric.

  • Hat for outside. This is brightly colored and they’re standard for both hoikuen and yochien. They’re brightly colored so that when the children walk to a park or wherever they’re going, they can be seen easily by cars and other pedestrians. I’m guessing it also makes it easier for their teachers to keep an eye on them.
  • Small shower towel (like the kind that you would normally put in a bathroom to dry your hands with). Yes, when they’re practicing for field day or just playing too much and sweat a lot, they end up taking a quick shower in their classroom. During the summer, her school actually had little kiddie pools that they would put out on the large balcony. I had to bring a bathing suit, a cap, and a towel for her every single day. After they were finished, they would shower. I’m glad summer’s over. 🙂
  • Pajamas for the week – This is kept in the classroom throughout the week. This item is placed inside her backpack on Friday afternoon after nap time.

In a separate bag

I got tired of finding large plastic bags so I finally found this multi-purpose, reusable bag.

  • Futon cover – These have corner garters to make sure they stay in place atop the futon mattress.
  • Towel blanket
  • Whatever extra (normal) clothes I could not fit in the backpack
  • Waterbottle (always with mugicha or roasted barley tea) I usually have Miyu carry this, but sometimes I’ll just throw it in here or carry it myself.

Today, or last night rather, I forgot to write her name on the bag holding her shower towel. And then, as I was stowing away her backpack and other things in her classroom, I saw that there was a place to put aprons. Her class cooks sometimes and parents are required to provide their child an apron, a mask (like the kind that you use when you’re sick), and a bandana to keep hair away from the face and from falling into things. I was confused because Ken had told me that they’ll be cooking every Friday. *Shrugs* Anyway, as I dropped Miyu off this morning, I asked her teacher if they were cooking today and luckily she said “ashita,” which means tomorrow.

Photos and cost of each item coming soon!

Mommy…look…

This morning, as I was making coffee and pouring it into my thermos, Miyu said behind me, “Mommy…look.” So naturally I looked back and saw this:

I love her sense of humor. 🙂

Miyu’s Flag for School

This week I was informed that Miyu will be needing a flag by Friday, which is tomorrow. Her hoikuen provided the paper for the flag and we have been entasked with creating a design with the theme of “Autumn Fruits”. So I gathered all of our arts and crafts materials and here I am on the dining table, wishing I had double-sided tape, and wondering what the hell to draw!

Ken had looked at me last night, grinning, and said, “Well since I’m the artist of the family, I guess I’ll just take care of this.” I responded with a perfunctory roll of my eyes.

I’m guessing this flag will be used for her upcoming field day on October 21 where Ken and I will be participating. That thought helps motivate me to make her flag stand out. But it’s 7:20PM and the clock is ticking. Will I be able to tackle this without letting my perfectionist side take over? I guess we’ll find out tomorrow.

Update: 9: 25PM

Taking out the trash

When I was a child, I was never taught to do my own chores. Despite working full time, my mother always washed the dishes and did the laundry. My parents sort of had an agreement that my dad would be the cook and he would be the one to clean and maintain the car and mow the lawn, while my mom would do everything else around the house. Even during my teen years, my mom did my laundry. It was only during tenth grade when she finally asked me to do my own laundry, and even then she would still do it most of the time.

Because I was, essentially, never taught to clean after myself, it was an overwhelming experience for me when I came to live in Japan.

I don’t want what happened with me to happen to my daughter. I want her to understand, from this early age, that house chores are an everyday thing. With the right attitude, they can even be fun. I want her to grow up and realize that a woman shouldn’t have to bear all the house chores just because she’s a woman. I want her to see that the entire family should be involved in maintaining a happy home because, well…that’s my philosophy and I think it’s a fair one.

I took a picture of Miyu today helping us with the trash. Our (Japanese) neighbor was surprised to see that she was helping us carry a few bags. When we got to the trash shed, I was shocked to see that Miyu had remembered from our last time throwing the trash. She already knew where to put the pet bottles! So now, whenever it’s trash day (or night), we’ll be giving her the pet bottle bag and Ken and I will do everything else. 🙂

Dear Miyu Alexandra

Dear Miyu Alexandra,

I now leave the fate of our houseplants in your hands, for their survival may very well depend on your most eager and diligent stewardship.

All the best,
Mommybear

My Little Helper Strikes Again!

She saw that I was doing the laundry, ran to the laundry basket and grabbed all her shirts, got a chair so she can reach the hangers, and voila. My little helper strikes again!

Later she helped me load the last load into the washing machine and she became upset when I told her that we wouldn’t start the machine until after we wake up from our nap. She was eager to push the buttons, that’s why. 🙂

I live for this smile

This was taken on Monday, September 4, when we, along with Ken’s parents and Alex, took a little trip to Hakone. Afterward, we stopped by Gotemba Premium Outlets where I think my FIL was the one who took this photo while Ken and I went to go find an ATM.

It’s amazing how much she resembles me when she smiles like that. Because of her, I am constantly in awe at the simple yet complex role of genetics in human life. I truly am. Sometimes I’m just staring at her and I get this overwhelming sense of love, pride, and humility. Almost dumbfoundedly I remember that I carried her in my womb, that my body constructed her flesh and bones, but that her soul—the essence that makes her unique—was not of my creation. And every time I remember that, my gratitude for my own life renews. I think to myself, how lucky I am to be alive to behold such beauty, how lucky I am to be her mother in this lifetime, how lucky I am to live for this smile.

Multiple use cooling pad

Miyu was at Baba and Jji’s house this evening and when she came back… she looked like this. I was immediately concerned because normally those cooling pads are used for when you have a fever. Well, it turns out that Miyu accidentally broke a vase at B&J’s house. It was sitting somewhere high and Miyu touched it, and as it fell, it bumped her forehead along the way. It was just a small, raised scratch really. 🙂

Hanabi Photoshoot

As I write this, the clock reads 1:46AM. Even though I’m exhausted, I wanted to post a quick entry since I recently finished uploading photos from our little hanabi session in the park. (See my Flickr in the sidebar.) Here are the things that I learned from this shoot using my new camera, the Fujifilm X-T2 with the 56mm f/1.2:

  • I compose shots better when I look through the EVF (electronic view finder)
  • Fireworks are tricky to shoot since 1) the environment is dark, 2) the autofocus has a habit of focusing on the smoke, 3) the various lights from the fireworks reflect on skin, thereby presenting a bit more work post-edit
  • Having continuous auto-focus ON comes in handy, especially when working with children
  • It’s good to scope the surroundings so that when you’re shooting, you avoid bumping/tripping/falling into things 😛
  • Fuji has damn good dynamic range! Even though I experimented a bit with different ISOs and shutter speeds, I noticed that in general, I was able to recover lots of shadows before the photo became grainy
  • I feel that face detection in the dark wasn’t that great in general compared to daytime conditions
  • Holding a vlogging cam and a mirrorless cam at the same time is rough!

I haven’t gone through the video footage yet, but when I have time tomorrow, I hope I can edit something decent. I think what I’m going to do is create a compilation of the entire year into one single movie.